The Top 10 Things Guys Look For In A Girlfriend

1. Confidence

Nothing is sexier than a woman who is at ease in her own skin, according to the guys. If you've ever asked meekly, "Does this skirt make my thighs look fat?"... Stop asking questions. If you need his reassurance that you're beautiful all the time, he may start asking questions himself.

2. Intelligence

After high school, acting like you're not as smart as he is loses its appeal to men. What men want in a girlfriend is a woman who can compete with him.

3. A lack of materialism

He truly desires to be your knight in shining armour. And, while he may want to treat you like the princess you are, that does not give you permission to act like one. Allow him the luxury of surprising you with romantic dinners and gifts without having to demand it.

4. Spontaneity

One of the most important aspects of maintaining a relationship is spontaneity. You get caught up in your Friday night dinner dates and lose the spark you had when you first started dating. Don't let it go!

5. A nonchalant approach to relationships

What is one of the most important things you can do to improve your relationship with him? Relax. Simply unwind. We know you want to lash out at him when you get home from a long, hard day at work and see those dishes piling up in the sink. Instead, try to forget about it for the night.

6. Lightheartedness

Guys like it when a girl laughs at their jokes but isn't mindless or always serious about everything. Men like a woman who can joke about the dishes, just like they like a woman who can stop nagging him about the dishes.

7. Sensuality

We've already mentioned before that it's not all about your looks (albeit, that's a good motivator for some men) — it's more about an air of sexiness and confidence that will draw his eyes to you when you enter the room.

8. Honesty

How can he ever see you as his girlfriend if he can't trust you... and future spouse? Maintain open and honest communication in your relationship. A little white lie over flirty texts with an old guy friend from college can quickly escalate into a full-fledged fight... and disintegration

9. Self-sufficiency

No man wants a girlfriend they have to reassuringly text, call, or visit every five minutes. Give him his poker night with the boys. Let him go golfing on a weekend. Learn to give your guy his space — or he may break up with you to get it.

10. Supportiveness

He wants to know that you'll support him and stand by him in his life choices, whether it's changing careers or moving to a new city. Show your support in small gestures with a quick "I love you" text when he heads off for his morning commute and listen to him after a hard day's work.

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