What are the most important things that make relationships healthy and happy? These are the same things that will help you in every part of your life. The big benefit is that if you work hard to develop these three qualities, you will be able to find a man who has them too.
If you don't have these traits, your relationships will end quickly and be full of drama. If these things were easy to do, there would be a lot less people who are single and a lot less divorces.
It does take work, but that's not a bad thing. When you get the benefits of a really good relationship, it's extra sweet because you're getting what you worked for.
No one else can run your life for you. You can't change what other people do, but you can change how you respond to what they do. You can't use the fact that someone else did something bad as an excuse for your own. Only you can stop yourself from being stuck in negative thinking, which leads to negative actions.
Have the guts to tell your man the truth. If you try to be someone you're not to get a man to like you, you'll be found out eventually. The only thing you don't have to work to keep is your authenticity. You'll find that it feels so much better to be loved for who you are rather than for what you try to be.
Respect is fundamental to love. The best way to get respect from other people is to respect yourself first. Respect means that both people are treated the same, and that you treat your partner the way you want to be treated. Respect is caring about someone else's happiness and letting them be who they want to be. Disrespect is the opposite of respect, and it will stop you from loving someone.
It just doesn't work out that way. Two people who have worked on themselves are what make up a relationship. Anyone can be in a relationship, but only people who make it a priority and are willing to grow will end up in happy, long-lasting ones.